Soliloquy – Herro Flom Japan http://www.herroflomjapan.com Binaural Podcasts From Japan Sun, 29 May 2016 07:29:58 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://i1.wp.com/www.herroflomjapan.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/cropped-hfj_neighborhood_shrine-smushed.jpg?fit=32%2C32 Soliloquy – Herro Flom Japan http://www.herroflomjapan.com 32 32 A binaural podcast from Japan. Rich Pav yes Rich Pav herroflomjapan@gmail.com herroflomjapan@gmail.com (Rich Pav) 2005-2016 Rich Pav Some guy in Japan and his kids. Soliloquy – Herro Flom Japan http://www.herroflomjapan.com/content/uploads/2015/06/Spray-painted-neighborhood-temple-1400px-Deep-Magazine.jpg http://www.herroflomjapan.com herroflomjapan@gmail.com Yes TV-PG Koga, Ibaraki, Japan Weekly 1487614 Maitri, mudita, karuna, and upeksanam http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2007/12/12/maitri-mudita-karuna-and-upeksanam/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=maitri-mudita-karuna-and-upeksanam http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2007/12/12/maitri-mudita-karuna-and-upeksanam/#comments Wed, 12 Dec 2007 02:04:30 +0000 http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2007/12/12/maitri-mudita-karuna-and-upeksanam/ The Buddhist definition of true love, which to me sounds a lot like true friendship. Maitri: Loving kindness; the ability to make someone happy. That “someone” can be: Yourself Someone you’re very fond of Someone you have sympathy for (I forgot to mention that one) A neutral person An enemy; someone you perceive as the […]

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The Buddhist definition of true love, which to me sounds a lot like true friendship.

  1. Maitri: Loving kindness; the ability to make someone happy. That “someone” can be:
    1. Yourself
    2. Someone you’re very fond of
    3. Someone you have sympathy for (I forgot to mention that one)
    4. A neutral person
    5. An enemy; someone you perceive as the cause of your suffering
  2. Mudita: transformation of pain
  3. Karuna: joy
  4. Upeksanam: equanimity, freedom, the opposite of imprisonment or forcing yourself on another person.

What I find interesting is what’s not on the list: passion, obsession, lust, obedience, dominance, jealousy…lots of things I’ve known people from all over the world define as true love (especially jealousy) but to me never seemed right.

And if you don’t believe it, that’s OK, because there is no dogma in Buddhism. There’s nothing that Buddha taught that you must believe or else be damned for all eternity. If it’s true for you, then it’s true.

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Last but not least, a Podcast http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2007/04/01/last-but-not-least-a-podcast/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=last-but-not-least-a-podcast http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2007/04/01/last-but-not-least-a-podcast/#comments Sun, 01 Apr 2007 12:19:56 +0000 http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2007/04/01/last-but-not-least-a-podcast/ Music by: I’s CUBE (Like them? Yes? No?) Some guy playing outside of Akabane station Wanna see the chumbucket? Fill out this survey Link to me from yer blog I forget what the third thing was…oh yeah! Gimme some money. (How could I forget that?)

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Music by:

  • I’s CUBE (Like them? Yes? No?)
  • Some guy playing outside of Akabane station

Wanna see the chumbucket?

  • Fill out this survey
  • Link to me from yer blog
  • I forget what the third thing was…oh yeah! Gimme some money. (How could I forget that?)

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The lost episode that wasn’t lost http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2007/02/15/the-lost-episode-that-wasnt-lost/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-lost-episode-that-wasnt-lost http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2007/02/15/the-lost-episode-that-wasnt-lost/#comments Thu, 15 Feb 2007 08:58:06 +0000 http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2007/02/15/the-lost-episode-that-wasnt-lost/ It turns out I did hit the record button. My annual mohawk. It only lasts for about ten minutes. Just long enough to freak out my wife and kids. Bonus photo: Me without the goatee. I started growing it back right after I took the pic.

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It turns out I did hit the record button.

Temporary Punker
My annual mohawk. It only lasts for about ten minutes. Just long enough to freak out my wife and kids.

Without facial hair
Bonus photo: Me without the goatee. I started growing it back right after I took the pic.

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The Ass Hair Burger Festival http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/10/19/the-ass-hair-burger-festival/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-ass-hair-burger-festival http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/10/19/the-ass-hair-burger-festival/#comments Thu, 19 Oct 2006 02:19:10 +0000 http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/10/19/the-ass-hair-burger-festival/ The underreported reason behind Mixi’s stock taking a nosedive less than a month after its stock went supernova on its first day of trading. Please don’t post any personal details about the people involved, or even links to information. If you feel the need to know more, Google it. Music by Plastic Soul Band

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The underreported reason behind Mixi’s stock taking a nosedive less than a month after its stock went supernova on its first day of trading.

Please don’t post any personal details about the people involved, or even links to information. If you feel the need to know more, Google it.

Music by Plastic Soul Band

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This is what a chikan looks like http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/10/05/this-is-what-a-chican-looks-like/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=this-is-what-a-chican-looks-like http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/10/05/this-is-what-a-chican-looks-like/#comments Thu, 05 Oct 2006 02:53:35 +0000 http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/10/05/this-is-what-a-chican-looks-like/ On the train to work this morning, I grabbed the hand of a guy who was feeling up the ass of a young woman in front of me. He was caught and the three of us went to the police station. Unfortunately the woman decided to not press charges so I just wasted two hours. […]

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On the train to work this morning, I grabbed the hand of a guy who was feeling up the ass of a young woman in front of me. He was caught and the three of us went to the police station. Unfortunately the woman decided to not press charges so I just wasted two hours. At least the incident will be put on the groper’s record.

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How I Met My Wife http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/10/03/how-i-met-my-wife/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-i-met-my-wife http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/10/03/how-i-met-my-wife/#comments Tue, 03 Oct 2006 06:45:00 +0000 http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/10/03/how-i-met-my-wife/ Music by Sophia Ramos, not Sonya Ramos. Her voice reminds me a little of the lead singer of La Oreja de Van Gogh. Here’s the post I talked about from BoingBoing.net about smoking etiquette in Japan.

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Music by Sophia Ramos, not Sonya Ramos. Her voice reminds me a little of the lead singer of La Oreja de Van Gogh.

Here’s the post I talked about from BoingBoing.net about smoking etiquette in Japan.

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Used Panty Vending Machines and other Bulls#!+ http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/09/20/used-panty-vending-machines-and-other-bulls/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=used-panty-vending-machines-and-other-bulls http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/09/20/used-panty-vending-machines-and-other-bulls/#comments Wed, 20 Sep 2006 03:02:02 +0000 http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/09/20/used-panty-vending-machines-and-other-bulls/ In respone to the comments to this post on Digg.com: Repeat after me: There are no used panty vending machines in Japan. The third most common vending machines after soft drinks and smokes aren’t the ones for porn. We don’t have supermarkets staffed by robots. You don’t see “many many bars and other services that […]

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In respone to the comments to this post on Digg.com:

Repeat after me: There are no used panty vending machines in Japan. The third most common vending machines after soft drinks and smokes aren’t the ones for porn. We don’t have supermarkets staffed by robots. You don’t see “many many bars and other services that have big signs saying ‘NO FOREIGNERS’.” Are the Japanese “beta testers for future technology”? I don’t think so. At least not the ones in my neighborhood.

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How I Became a Lifer http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/09/15/how-i-became-a-lifer/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-i-became-a-lifer http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/09/15/how-i-became-a-lifer/#comments Thu, 14 Sep 2006 15:12:19 +0000 http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/09/15/how-i-became-a-lifer/ For someone who hardly ever talks, I sure talked a lot tonight. I found a printout of some questions someone e-mailed me back in January. Did I already answer them? If I did, did I give the same answers this time as last time? Someone is going to mention this, so I’ll do it first. […]

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For someone who hardly ever talks, I sure talked a lot tonight. I found a printout of some questions someone e-mailed me back in January. Did I already answer them? If I did, did I give the same answers this time as last time?

Someone is going to mention this, so I’ll do it first. You know, I, like, you know, say “you know” too much. You know? Chances are you already know.

Let’s make it into a game. Wherever you are when you listen to this episode, every time I say “you know,” punch a random bystander in the face. Send me photos of the hilarity that ensues, and the person with the best photo will win a prize.
Music:

Obadiah Parker

Methlab Production

P.S. Wow, so far 90 people downloaded the 200MB hires version of Tony’s vlog. That’ll make him very happy. And I’ve only used 2% of my Dreamhost bandwidth. Merely a flesh wound. What surprises me the most is that it means I have at least 90 listeners. I only ever imagine around four, and that’s including my mother.

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Sounds of Shinjuku http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/09/12/sounds-of-shinjuku/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=sounds-of-shinjuku http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/09/12/sounds-of-shinjuku/#comments Tue, 12 Sep 2006 00:57:50 +0000 http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/09/12/sounds-of-shinjuku/ The post Sounds of Shinjuku appeared first on Herro Flom Japan.

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Walk To Work: The Podcast http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/02/22/walk-to-work-the-podcast/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=walk-to-work-the-podcast http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/02/22/walk-to-work-the-podcast/#comments Wed, 22 Feb 2006 02:15:14 +0000 http://www.herroflomjapan.com/2006/02/22/walk-to-work-the-podcast/ This is the audio from the WTW video, for the video challenged members of our audience.

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This is the audio from the WTW video, for the video challenged members of our audience.

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