Dec
12
2007
The Buddhist definition of true love, which to me sounds a lot like true friendship.
- Maitri: Loving kindness; the ability to make someone happy. That "someone" can be:
- Yourself
- Someone you're very fond of
- Someone you have sympathy for (I forgot to mention that one)
- A neutral person
- An enemy; someone you perceive as the cause of your suffering
- Mudita: transformation of pain
- Karuna: joy
- Upeksanam: equanimity, freedom, the opposite of imprisonment or forcing yourself on another person.
What I find interesting is what's not on the list: passion, obsession, lust, obedience, dominance, jealousy…lots of things I've known people from all over the world define as true love (especially jealousy) but to me never seemed right.
And if you don't believe it, that's OK, because there is no dogma in Buddhism. There's nothing that Buddha taught that you must believe or else be damned for all eternity. If it's true for you, then it's true.
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Sep
27
2007
From now on in my podcasts, I'm going to ramble, stutter, sniffle, repeat myself, etc. in homage to my new hero, Maria, the world's most horrible singer.
Learning not to Care: Lesson 1 [13:13m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download (1518)
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Apr
01
2007
Music by:
- I's CUBE (Like them? Yes? No?)
- Some guy playing outside of Akabane station
Wanna see the chumbucket?
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- Link to me from yer blog
- I forget what the third thing was…oh yeah! Gimme some money. (How could I forget that?)
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Feb
15
2007
It turns out I did hit the record button.

My annual mohawk. It only lasts for about ten minutes. Just long enough to freak out my wife and kids.

Bonus photo: Me without the goatee. I started growing it back right after I took the pic.
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Oct
19
2006
The underreported reason behind Mixi's stock taking a nosedive less than a month after its stock went supernova on its first day of trading.
Please don't post any personal details about the people involved, or even links to information. If you feel the need to know more, Google it.
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